At Hayes, we recognise that there are times when it is possible that you may need some extra support and help to manage unfamiliar situations and feelings. The Hayes Pastoral Team is well experienced and able to provide some support in school however, the following websites may be useful if you need additional support and guidance. Whilst we aim to support in every way we can, there is a wide range of external support available which maybe a good starting point for you.
If you wish to discuss further please contact a member of the pastoral team.
You can contact any of the team below either by coming to speak to them during the school day or by emailing wellbeing@hayes.bromley.sch.uk.
| Designated Safeguarding Lead - Mrs S Arney, Assistant Principal | SLA@hayes.bromley.sch.uk |
| Deputy Safeguarding Team | |
| Mr D Loomes - Assistant Principal | DJL@hayes.bromley.sch.uk |
| Mr S Whittle, Principal | postmaster@hayes.bromley.sch.uk |
| Mrs S Hardy - Inclusion Manager | SBH@hayes.bromley.sch.uk |
| Mrs C Thompson, Senior Vice Principal | CXT@hayes.bromley.sch.uk |
Anna Freud Resource - Talking Mental Health with Young People
Anna Freud Resource - 7 Ways to support young people with Anxiety
Bromley Y for counselling support, group support and family therapy
Kooth - Online Mental Health Support
MeeTwo- An app-based peer support program for young people aged 11-25.
Papyrus - Suicide Prevention for young people
Young Minds - supporting children and young people with emotional health and wellbeing concerns, offering a wide range of resources across a whole spectrum of issues affecting children and young people
Epic Friends - Support for young people who are providing support friends with mental health difficulties
Bromley Bereavement Service - phone number: 0208 768 4591 - offers community bereavement support for adults and children.
The Candle Project – St Christophers- supporting children and young people through loss and bereavement
Winston’s Wish - offers practical and emotional support for bereaved children & young people, their families and professionals supporting them.
Mind have put together some useful information around mental health in the pandemic.
Staying well at Home: Coping with Stress and Anxiety is a workbook that has been compiled for young people by the National Youth Agency to provide them with practical strategies to cope with anxiety and stress they may be experiencing through the Coronavirus pandemic.
Staying well at Home: Coping with Feelings of Frustration and Anger is a workbook that has been compiled for young people by the NYA to provide them with practical strategies to cope with feelings of anger and frustration that they may be experiencing through the Coronavirus pandemic.
Young Minds have put together this resource to support young people’s mental health through the pandemic.
Bromley Changes - Drug and alcohol support for young people
Support Line - London based charity offering support
Talk to Frank - Drug use support
Turning Point - Alcohol and drug support
Rehab 4 Addiction is an advisory and referral service for people who suffer from alcohol, drug and behavioural addiction.
National Domestic Abuse Helpline
NSPCC - Domestic Abuse
ABC - Anorexia and Bulimia Care
Beat - Eating Disorder Charity
Mind - Eating Disorder Support
NHS- Eating Disorder Support
Family Lives - National charity providing support for all aspects of family life
NHS - information for parents of children who may be transgender or non binary.
Young Minds - information for parents supporting their children through gender identity issues.
Young Stonewall for young LGBTQ people
The Proud Trust - home of LGBT+ Youth
Breck Foundation - Charity campaigning for safer internet for children and young people
CEOP - Keeping children and young people safe from exploitation on-line, resources and advice for children & young people, parents/carers and professionals.
Cyber Bullying support from Family Lives
NSPCC - Online Safety Support
Mind - Self Harm Support
NHS - Self Harm Information
NSPCC - Support on Self Harm
Young Minds - Self Harm Information
One in Four provide a range of specialist support for survivors of sexual violence, domestic violence and abuse, and particularly survivors of child sexual abuse and trauma
The Survivors Trust provides a range of support services (including counselling) for survivors of sexual abuse
NSPCC Helpline for people who have experienced sexual harassment or abuse in education 0800 136 663
Childline - A free point of contact for children and young people who need advice either online or via telephone on a wide range of issues, depression, abuse, bullying etc.
The Mix - Support for Under 25’s in a range of different areas.
NSPCC - Keeping children and young people safe from a wide range of abusive situations.